Published in the Asbury Park Press 05/21/05

Put a stop to bullying

While your article on the fight at Matawan Avenue Middle School was not surprising, it was disturbing. ("Cops probe fight at middle school," May 9.)

There have been serious problems with bullying at the school since my child was a student there, particularly during 2002-2003 when he was in the eighth grade. Not only was my child harassed, but I encountered several other parents who, unsolicited, related their experiences and concerns with bullying at the school.

Bullying is a problem at many schools. But those schools are not denying the problem and are attempting to address it. The article indicates things may have only become worse since my child was a student. It escalated to the point where a child was seriously injured. But just as disturbing was the response from the school administration. It attempted to place the blame on the victim. The superintendent stated it appears the incident was the result of "horseplay." Where were the adults who should be supervising children to ensure that things don't escalate to the point of serious physical injury? And how can it be described as horseplay when a child has to be hospitalized?

The student who caused the concussion should be expelled and transferred to a facility better equipped to handle and help him. The administration should recognize and address the problem. The parents and taxpayers of the district should demand an immediate, effective response. What will it take to remedy this problem - another injury, a lawsuit, a death?

Cynthia Grinberg

NEW MILFORD, CONN.

FORMER ABERDEEN RESIDENT